“I Don’t Want to Play Politics” I’ve heard this phrase countless times from many immigrants I coach—especially immigrant women in leadership. And to be honest, I used to say it too. “I just want to do good work and be recognized for it.” “I don’t have time for the games.” “I’m not good at self-promotion.” […]

I used to think networking meant putting on a brave face at big events, handing out business cards, and hoping something would come of it. As an introvert—and an immigrant woman in tech—it always felt… off. Like I had to perform someone else’s version of connection. But over the years, I’ve found another way. A […]

I felt so happy, content, and blessed walking through a waterfront park at sunset with my partner. And yet—I also felt incredibly sad. It’s unusual for me to feel both joy and sorrow at the same time. But lately, I’ve been living with both. Given the current political climate, I keep hearing stories like these: […]

This photo was taken during a mini trip with friends in Taiwan. We stayed at a funky hotel clearly designed for young people—playful, trendy, full of Instagram-perfect corners. Then we saw it. 🛁 A bathtub in the middle of a public lounge area, lit perfectly, ready for photos. At first, I hesitated. “I’m too old […]

I thought I was fully committed. Every morning, I sat at my desk, coffee in hand, reading my personal declaration out loud: “I am the best coach for immigrant women.” I believed it. I felt it. I wanted it. But one day, a simple question stopped me in my tracks: “Where in your life do […]