Don’t Get Rid of Imposter Syndrome. Get Good At It!
In my first ever coaching session with a stranger, I didn’t even finish the planned hour-long session. He’s an elder who responded to my pro bono coaching offer. He wanted to talk about the pain he’s going through with aging. My heart sank and my mouth was dry. I knew nothing about aging, which made […]
Continue readingMore TagFreedom Is The Ability to COMMIT to Oneself
I have a confession to make – I have commitment phobia. After I wrote The Power of Being Your Words, I got many heart-felt responses. It reflects the social norm that words are increasing cheap. We stop trusting ourselves and others if we don’t honor our words. I wrote that post because words are important […]
Continue readingMore TagHow to “BEing” the Answer You Are Waiting For
For most of my life, I’ve been waiting. “What are you waiting for?” you ask. All sorts of things. Waiting for someone to love me, unconditionally. Waiting for people to value and validate me. Waiting for someone to trust and believe in me. Waiting for the next promotion where my hard work and impact are […]
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“Someone somewhere in this world today is taking their last breath. At some point, it will be us. Let’s not take our life, our little moments for granted.“ I’ve been listening to this guided meditation for many times. Although the statements are true, I can’t help but think it’s too dramatic. However, today it’s […]
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I got ghosted this week by two people. I also got a last-minute reschedule request on the day of the meeting. This happens almost every week. Sometimes, I initiated the gathering. Sometimes, others reach out to schedule the meetings. I used to feel undervalued when no-shows happened. The thoughts like “I’m not good enough for […]
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