“What would it look like if you signed up for the unlimited yoga pass?” my coach asked. My body flinched. “It’s $169 a month,” I replied. “That’s way more than I’m comfortable spending.” There it was—my old pattern: Ease into it. Be cautious. Don’t spend too much. And I knew exactly where it came from. […]

I just had my record revenue month. And you know what it feels like? Ease. Flow. Knowing that people come to me because of who I am. No pretending. No trying to prove myself. Just clean energy. A deep knowing – being me works. What “being me” looks like 👉 Build deep relationships—for connection, not […]

Yesterday, my partner turned to me and said: “I feel like we’re struggling in California. Should we start thinking about moving?” She was reacting to California’s proposed shift to a mileage tax—charging per mile driven rather than at the pump. And I totally got it. We still eat out, but lately we’re often shocked by […]

What do you do when guilt, shame, embarrassment, anger, or resentment show up? My default used to be: run away. As far and fast as possible. I’d distract myself with anything— 📱 Scrolling social media 📋 Jumping into the next task 💨 Pretending it didn’t matter But here’s the truth I couldn’t escape: myself. The […]

“I Don’t Want to Play Politics” I’ve heard this phrase countless times from many immigrants I coach—especially immigrant women in leadership. And to be honest, I used to say it too. “I just want to do good work and be recognized for it.” “I don’t have time for the games.” “I’m not good at self-promotion.” […]