Almost everyone I talk to experiences the FEAR of FAILURE. People often say it’s one of the main reasons that holds them back. Many ask me if I can help them to live without fear.  I always tell them – no.  Because being able to feel fear is an important part of being human. It’s […]

I woke up at 5:45am today. This was significant because somehow I had the mental block that I couldn’t wake up before 6am. With the arbitrary limitation, I told myself stories like – I would be too tired to show up powerfully in coaching sessions.  Or, I wouldn’t have the energy to sustain the day. […]

I caught up with a potential client a few days ago.  She just started a new job as the head of the department at a startup. She has the highest title ever in her career while doubling her salary!!! I congratulated her on taking such a big leap! But she didn’t seem to be happy. […]

When it comes to being lucky with money, I didn’t believe I had it.  The highest amount of a lottery ticket I won was $10 USD.  I didn’t really gamble because I didn’t believe I’d win anything. I believed I was the work-my-ass-off kind of person for every dollar that came my way. I was […]

“I don’t want to get married. If that’s what you want, we probably shouldn’t be together.” This is what I told my partner more than 8 years ago when we started dating.  Back then, I didn’t know how to express myself.  You see. I was born in a family where we don’t talk about feelings. It […]